Dating someone with bpd forums
I’m sure you’ve seen these thrown all over the web. However, because women are like cats, she will come and go as she pleases. Most people with poor mindsets become needy and insecure when a woman pulls away. He is a loving, strong, ‘alpha male’, who is actually mature enough to take advice from sites and books like these and put them into use. Most guys (and girls) have trouble dealing with Borderlines in their relationships.All you have to do is take a quick visit to any community forum and you’ll see associated words such as: And so on and so forth. You’ll find these issues in almost everybody these days. It’s a terrible mindset to walk about throwing labels on people. Thus, You need to keep in mind that your girlfriend has her own unique upbringing and life experiences. If you can’t do this, then the relationship will never improve. But, experienced men know the push/pull cycle works in your favor. We may be labeled as ‘troubled’ or ‘crazy’ but that does not at all mean we can’t have healthy relationships. You have to mentally see what they see, read between the lines. Thanks to the crazy society we live in, this is a monumental task. It took a few months of seeing this woman casually for her to open up to me emotionally. Most guys don’t understand this and they screw things up. That is why I created the Better BPD Relationships course.The guys/girls that "get it" don't even think about coming to a forum for help. Don't sit around and try to figure out what the heck happened - just get up and leave. These people have an ILLNESS and this is simply what happens. For example, I ALWAYS make my gf drive to MY HOUSE when she comes around.Luckily, I have a friend that has dated multiple bipolar/bpd women and he's enlightened me. So this is what I want you all to do: The next time you're with your partner and they grow distant/cold/give you that speech about how you guys can't be together anymore, just do a simple "Okay that's cool" and leave. If they text you about how they want a break or whatever, just reply with "k" THAT'S IT! The BEST way to treat it is to GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT. They simply need a break and the best thing to do is DISAPPEAR. It's usually pretty rare for her to leave these days because she knows I can leave her...There's a reason why you don't hear about people writing about their successful bipolar/bpd relationships. She started texting me about how much she hates me and how I'm a huge douchebag. When I get those texts, I reply with something simple like "nice." or "very mature." something along those lines.Obviously, there ARE successful relationships out there. DO NOT get emotional and start saying things like "I think we're great together..." or anything like that.
If a change in your mentality improves your BPD relationship, would you want that? I should take her back and we can work on it.” It’s a horrible mindset to excuse behavior based on a label.But, the reality is that you’ll encounter complications in all relationships. Yet all studies show that relationships and social skills are at an all-time low. Because 97% of men lack mental and emotional control. The whole entire point of changing your mindsets is this: Poor mindsets lead to a lack of mental and emotional control. The man who fails with BPD women sets himself up for failure. Because you can avoid 90% of the problems you experience. My goal with this website and my training is to teach you from my experience. Instead of the man having control over his mind, the mind controls him! If you’re unaware of BPD, you’ll assume you have a “crazy” girlfriend. You’ll always be seeking a fantasy that never comes to fruition. What he currently receives from his partner isn’t enough. To understand women is to understand how they communicate on an emotional level. This is what a centered man with great mindsets brings to the table. You have to be mature enough to learn about it and want to do your part to make the relationship work. And I would like you to know it is NOT impossible to date us. I hope you can see why you’re drawn to the honeymoon period. You love the feeling of being close and affectionate. But, most people struggle with relationships in general these days. One girl I was dating had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship a few months before. It will teach you the strong mindsets you need in order to have successful relationships.It isn’t until you do your research that you learn about BPD. Due to past experiences with men, women (especially borderlines) will pull away. It is POSSIBLE that you are very judgmental and not understanding what the disorder is. Most individuals who struggle with BPD relationships have a form of attachment disorder. It’s very rare to see a man successfuly date a quality woman. She told me how it was an extremely toxic relationship. So why the hell did she stay with a douchebag for 5 years? Click here to learn more about Better BPD Relationships Most guys are making crucial errors that push the girl away even further.This is my first post and I thought I'd give back to the community with some helpful advice I've learned over the past year. Where a bipolar person might leave every 4 weeks or so, a BPD person could leave every other day.I've been dating a person with BPD for over 6 months now and I would never even know what BPD or bi-polar was without dating this person, NOR would I be the much stronger, more confident person that I am today. Anywho, the advice I have is for both and I hope it works for you.Men date Borderlines because women with BPD are usually attractive. Inexperienced men jump through all the hoops because they are desperate for her. We all want to fall in love with a beautiful women. Immature, inexperienced men will blame their BPD girlfriend for everything. Instead of looking within, it’s easy to place blame on others.