Dating someone 40 years younger separated when to start dating
Yes, I'd dated men three to five years younger but it felt like men 10 to 20 years younger were living on a different planet. I must admit the latter, known as Cougar Dating, was a little hard for me to wrap my head around even as a Dating Coach.He’s either impulsive or, more likely, using you as a back-up girl when his other plans fell through. A grownup guy who truly wants to know you will get the message and ask you out ahead of time.
But that doesn't mean you can't have fun trying the cougar thing for a change.
As women over 50, most of us are not willing to head over to the local Steak and Shake for a date.
No, we want to be wined and dined at nice restaurants, and for some of us only the best will do.
Our high maintenance ways were just hidden from these young men since they don't live with their mommies anymore.
Somehow, they've created this great fantasy of who they think we are, and that is what they want to experience. He could have had the pick of the litter his own age and even younger, yet he was asking me, a 50 year old woman, on a date? Instead, I played the game and flirted with him, while having a charming afternoon being courted by a young handsome man. As much chemistry as we had, I actually found it hard to relate to a lot of what he was saying, but that afternoon was fun and he sure did make me feel good!