Dating or just sex
There isn’t a constant stream of sunlight around us. But God is faithful, and prayer that he will sustain you goes a long way. Jesus said “You are right when you say you have no husband.
Some days, love will be a choice, but that proves that it’s real. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband….” I think God wants us to be happy and that there is a right and wrong way to go about finding a marriage mate but we have to be careful because God gave us hormones and feelings and his word.
If you trust in Him and listen to what he says about relationships, He will work for your good.
Dating is complicated, tricky, testing and can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. Doing it right is flipping hard and requires some serious dedication.
Heartbreak is not impossible for Christians, and the first guy you try to date in a God honouring way might not be the guy, there might not even be a guy (there’s an excellent post on singleness here, sooooo worth checking out), but Relationships are both wonderful and testing, but the best way to do them will always be God’s way, whether we like it or not. You must be careful because you are linked with the first person you lose your virginity to.
In fact, I feel able to talk and write about this topic precisely because I have got it wrong so many times and God has consistently shown me grace and turned my mistakes into good.
Ella is currently a student at Cardiff University in Wales studying English Literature and Religious Studies. Then again if you are truly seeking God then your religion may change until you find the truth and you shouldn’t be looking for a marriage partner anyways.
She grew up on the south coast of England with 3 younger siblings and loves reading, singing and chocolate brownies. Abraham got married again but only after Sarah died.
Christian relationships are messy, complicated and sometimes they break down.
I fight with my boyfriend, sometimes he’s annoying, sometimes I’m frustrating or just not loving him properly.