Dating is seriously not easy relevant
Growing up and starting to date, I had the same dreams as most all my girlfriends.I wanted to fall in love, get married, and have kids.My life didn’t turn out the way I thought it would and I had NO idea that I would end up in my 50’s, single and dating again.
I made plenty of bad choices along the way and it didn’t go the way I wanted it to go, but the blessings aren’t over yet, nor is life over yet.I’m not the typical “guy” who posts shirtless pictures of himself on dating sites or sends unsolicited pictures of his genitals to random women.But I am a guy who is fond of online dating sites, so I have a few tips that might help you when using them.It’s a whole new ball game, some good and some not so great.Men in their 50’s and 60’s can still act like little boys and it sometimes feels like we are all in high school again, even though our ages tell a different story.They have a decent algorithm as I found myself conversing with smart, funny and attractive women regularly. There wasn’t much competition — that is, not many other guys were using it when I was.Eventually as more and more men (late majority) joined the site, I observed two problems.Decent guys who really were more descriptive in their profiles were pushed out by the overtly masculine “bros” that dominated the site.As a result, they destroyed the network of decent matches.Perhaps my perspective here might help you when seeking your next mate on there (or not). I turned 19 and I was good with finding and meeting prospective dates on there.You were defined by how cool your My Space layout was – animated GIFs, custom CSS and your favorite embedded You Tube video.