Dating culture in the netherlands
If we suddenly stopped being in thrall to the rigid, old-fashioned ideal of marriage, we could stop worrying about low marriage rates and high divorce rates.
Whether an ESN volunteer or just someone you met in Tivoli, the Albert Heijn or somewhere else.
I try to explain how having children outside of marriage is still considered an alternative, and essentially inferior life choice. It seemed like a crazy American thing for marriage to matter so much.
I mention that an American writer wrote a cover story in the on the remarkable and exotic fact that she was in her late 30s and had never married. To them this obsession, this nagging necessity for weddings, the lack of general acceptance toward other pretty common ways of living, is so foreign, so uniquely American, such a quaint narrowness, that it’s incomprehensible as an actual mode of modern life.
I don’t know about the cheese (if you want to date me, just offer me cheese – but that’s me), but the other two stereotypes have some impact on dating a Dutch girl.
So to help you out, here are a few tips for successfully dating Dutch girls: we Dutchies are very open and direct.